Clifton if you are a suburbs person. Annapolis if youâre cool with living with Maryland
One of my bosses when I worked in DC lived in Lancaster PA which seemed like a very cool place. And PA has a beneficial tax scheme for when you retire if I remember right.
I also think they announced more trains from Cville to DC with the new Amtrak funding yesterday.
NYC is a very big place. Youâd need to spend more than a day or a week there to appreciate it (not that it is unique from any other place in that respect). Itâs not all high rises and concrete at all. Iâm from a pretty country town in VA, grew up hunting and fishing etc., and I moved to nyc after school, thinking I wouldnât like it and would only stay a few years. My career and my wife said otherwise. But I also absolutely loved it. I will say this: once I got into my 30s and got married and more family oriented, I had to leave Manhattan because I needed more space. But there is no better place to spend your 20s, IMO (obviously I only spent mine in one place).
Now I live 20 miles north of the city (35 minutes by train to grand central) and have what I need from a âtouch the grassâ perspective (at least in the context of a discussion about âcitiesâ). But I hear you, if you donât like the âfast paceâ then Manhattan isnât going to be your town. It is an intense place. I actually hate going into the city these days, but I still think it is the best city in America, and itâs there if I need it.
I wondered how many people might vote for Charlottesville.
Charlottesville would be a hell of an option. The main issue is the lack of housing development around the train station. If you could buy a townhome near the train, it would be great. But having a country home, driving to the cville station then probably taking the red line from DC union station to Dupont/Farragut for your K st job is kind of annoying
The really interesting option would be Philadelphia - big city, cheap housing, super easy train to Union station
Agree. It seems that one might as well live north of Charlottesville and then drive to Culpeper station instead.
This is not a decision that Iâll have to consider soon, but Iâd be disembarking at Alexandria, sparing the annoyance of looping through Union Station.
None taken! Like any city, there ate pro and cons. But still, CLT sux.
Love Jacksonville (ok, really just the beaches)
Way too few qualifiers on this discussion.
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Big cities only or are small cities (e.g. Charlottesville) in the discussion? I think theyâre separate categories for the purposes of comparison.
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We talking best for visiting or best to live in? Very different sets of criteria. St. Louis, for example, fine city to live in, terribly boring to visit.
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what kind of budget are we working with?
Alexandria
Honestly⊠Iâd say Richmond⊠as long as your commute can be on off hours.
When i moved to atl i went back to dc for work about40 or 60 days a yr easy flight and cheap on the company tab
My first few years out of uva I lived in a garden apartment on commonwealth ave, walking distance to a half court with players just as terrible as me, and the King St metro, and karaoke night at rock-it grill. Life was good. Another vote for Alexandria. Liked that specific hood, but i suppose I could be convinced to take a townhouse in old town if someone else is paying
You were asking about a human desire for time in nature. Iâd point to a human desire for connection and community. NYC is amazing for this. Houston, not so much.
Richmond or Frederick MD (in town). I like walkable and historic and some bars around.
The distillery in Frederick is awesome.
The museum of civil war medicine not so much
More evidence that Durham is the worst city -
The bar Iâm at refuses to put the crosstown shootout on tv @BDragon
This is great. When I lived in NYC in my 20s I did all of that. Central Park etc all the time. Enjoyed everything. But I moved to Brasil and then back to Battery Park so location is very different and changes things
Bookk
Hey! You guys are randomly talking about where I moved to a couple years back. Like the Frederick downtown area, good restaurants.
Although we tried desperately to stay in state it VA although I work up in Frederick, prices were going up in houses too quick and couldnât find anything in Lovettsville VA and had to cross over into MD ![]()